Learn The Lessons, cont'd
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Sometimes it's not easy to determine what the lessons were. I was married for a brief moment of insanity to an angry, insecure man. It took me a long time to figure out what lessons I needed to learn. Mostly, because he was so strong, It was either learn to stand up to him and hold my own or get squashed like a bug.
This was a great lesson and just last week it served me well in a very important meeting I was in. I and my partner were very proud of how I handled myself. If I hadn't had the opportunity to learn to stand for myself, I would not have performed so admirably in that meeting.
So keep asking. It might not come to you in the first meditation but be patient. It might come to you in a dream, in the shower, in the middle of a conversation, or while reading a book. But it will eventually come.
The next step is to thank your Higher Self for giving you the gift of that lesson. If there was a person who you haven't been able to forgive, you will need to do so to garner all the benefits. Forgiving doesn't mean you dismiss what they did or make it okay. It simply means you need to acknowledge that they didn't know any better, that their spirit is sick in some way, for some reason, and let it go as thepathway, albiet, difficult, to an important life lesson. If you don't forgive them and be grateful for the lesson, that person or event controls you, has power over you, and keeps you from moving forward on your journey toward greatness.
Let it go and in that space that is left will enter the blessings that have been waiting for you.
If what happened occurred when you were a child, I have a workshop that will guide you to heal and blossom into the fullness of who you are supposed to be. It is deeply personal, can be very emotional, and extremely healing. Contact me if you are interested in joining me on this amazing adventure into the healing of your heart. You can email me here.
Joyfully,
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