How to Get Him to Compliment You

A woman in my Private Support Group* asked me how to get her boyfriend to compliment her. It  felt like it was of such importance to her that it would eventually push him away.

Then, “Grenade,” Bruno Mar’s song, came on my iTunes. I love the sound of the song, but the lyrics are insane. Paraphrasing, “I’d catch a grenade for you, stand in front of a train for you…but you won’t do the same for me.” Huh? Is he kidding?

One of the problems that befalls many relationships is one person thinks the other needs to show their love in a particular way, or the same way as they do.

If you need compliments and complain because you don’t get them, I invite you to search your inner self to discover why you need  the affirmations. Then, when you understand the hidden truths, go and  get what you want. Sit on his lap and ask him, when you are feeling pretty, “Do you like how I look?” Or, when you’re naked with him and you know he’s  into you, ask, “Am I sexy?” but in a playful, sexy way.  You’ll actually get a more honest response.

You can also simply tell him that, “…as silly as it might seem to you, I’m a girl and I really like it when you tell me I’m pretty (or whatever compliments you need to hear). It would make me so happy if you told me those things once in a while.”

Men like simple instructions so they can get it right. And you can tell him you understand he doesn’t think that way (like a girl) so is it okay to remind him once in a while?

If you want to create a better relationship than you’ve ever had, you need to know the Secrets about men that I discovered after two years of studying and interviewing men. It’s the foundation of every good relationship. Only a hand full of women know these Secrets and they are the relationships you admire. Trust me, I’ve been researching this for over a dozen years. The Secrets are absolutely essential to any great relationship.

And if you want to find out if he’s a Caveman, a Dog, a Prince, or all three, download my 3 free ebooks at KaraOh.com.

*Private Support Group. Every woman who has purchased one of my books or programs is welcome in this group. They get ongoing support from me, as well as the other wonderful women in the group.

From my heart to yours,

The Single Most Important Skill You’ll Need

If you’ve ever wondered what the single most important skill is for creating a deeply loving, passionate relationship is, I would tell you, without a doubt – it’s the ability to use the power you already have, as a woman, over any man you want to influence.

That’s because the single most important ingredient of any successful relationship is… the power that is hidden within you right now. I call it Feminine Grace and I’ll teach you how to use it. Click Here.

He’s Gone But You Want Him Back

Are you still wishing you could get back with him?

Women write to me–especially after reading Men Made Easy and seeing all the things they did that pushed him away–wanting to know how they can win him back. I do understand their desire to “have another chance” to prove they’re different, but if you don’t have contact, there’s nothing you can do to show him you’ve learned the mistakes you made.

If you can’t stop thinking about him, can’t stop wishing you could have that second chance, and can’t stop thinking about ‘what could have been,’ you need to take charge of those thoughts. Otherwise, your thoughts are controlling you. To do that, you have to find something to replace those thoughts with. To do that, make a list of all the things that you wanted, but he didn’t give you. Now, make a list of what you DO want when the next, better man shows up. Then, when those thoughts jump in take over, notice it, then replace those old thoughts with the thoughts of how great it will be when you meet the man who will give you want. At the very least, you should be with a man who is thrilled to have you in his life. 

When a man cuts all contact with you, it’s more important that you admit it’s over, and begin to take care of yourself. I would recommend you do some kind of ritual. Maybe write down what you gained from being with him, what you learned, and what you want that he couldn’t give you. Then say a kind of prayer asking your spirit to be set free of this man so you can find someone who is excited to be with you. You can burn it or cut it into tiny pieces and let the wind take ithttp://www.alivewithlove.com.whatever feels right. It’s time to move on. 

If you want to discover the mistakes that push a man away, get your copy of Men Made Easy right now and learn the Secrets to a man’s heart.

From my heart to yours,

The Single Most Important Skill You’ll Need

If you’ve ever wondered what the single most important skill is for creating a deeply loving, passionate relationship is, I would tell you, without a doubt – it’s the ability to use the power you already have, as a woman, over any man you want to influence.

That’s because the single most important ingredient of any successful relationship is… the power that is hidden within you right now. I call it Feminine Grace and I’ll teach you how to use it. Click Here.