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Why Masturbation Is a Good Idea page 4
Of course, that is a quick fix. Masturbation is also used to learn control. The young man brings himself to the edge of climax and then postpones his gratification. He does this repeatedly, removing his hand, squeezing his pubococcygeus (pyoo-bo-cock-see-gee-us) or PC muscle until he gains control over his penis. It’s a progressive exercise. He grows stronger. He controls his penis. It’s a trait a number of women admire. It doesn’t just happen though. It’s learned. Of course, he doesn’t have to learn this physical skill. He can have a penis that controls him. Those are the choices he has. That is something a lot of women fail to understand. Masturbation can help a man become a better lover. Indeed, masturbation can be used as a tool for teaching a man to become multi-orgasmic. Yes men can have multiple orgasms too. Please understand, this does not mean he merely has several orgasms over the course of an evening. Many an unskilled young lover does that. This means he has more than one orgasm with one erection. It means, he can have an orgasm or two or three and continue to have intercourse until his mate is satisfied. It means, he doesn’t have to stop and start and frustrate his partner. In case you haven’t guessed, this is a learned skill. It involves strengthening the PC muscles and masturbating. Good lovers are after all made.
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Many nervous young men have avoided the embarrassment of premature ejaculation by taking care of themselves before embarking upon the night’s great adventure. He avoids appearing anxious or overly concerned about sex. He delays ejaculation. She has a better time. Everybody is happy.
