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Have you ever taken a close, detailed look at your vulva and all it's parts? Most women haven't. It's a good idea so you can know your body better. There's no nice name for all your parts so I like the Sanscrit word, yoni. It's a beautiful word, don't you think? It's time we honored the female body. Sit on a towel and look at your yoni with a hand-held mirror. Does it look like a butterfly or maybe a flower, or like on the cover of the book, Femalia--with nothing but photos of yonis--a seashell. (It's a good book because it shows women how varied yonis can be. It helped me see that I was perfectly normal.)

If you are light skinned, you probably have a pink yoni. If you are dark skinned, there will be touches of dark or even black on your folds. How much and what color your pubic hair varies greatly. The fleshy areas on either side are the labia. They swell with blood and get reddish when you are aroused. Some women have flaps on either side of the urethra, the opening to the urinary tract, where urine is excreted. Sometimes the flaps are big and hanging and sometimes hardly visible. The clitoris is toward the front of all the flaps. If you touch it, it's like a hard little pea. It grows when you are aroused because it's made of the same tissue and nerves as a man's penis. There are actually more nerve endings in your clitoris than in a penis. Most of the clitoris is hidden beneath the surface, deep inside of your body. That's why a woman's orgasm feels so full-bodied and deep. continued

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