The Mysterious G Spot
The G spot, sometimes referred to as the Goddess Spot or the Sacred Spot, has the potential to give a woman a great deal of pleasure. But many don't know where it is. I heard a joke recently that seems perfect for this discussion. It goes like this. Do you know the difference between a golf ball and a woman's G spot? Answer: A man will spend 10 minutes looking for a golf ball. This joke speaks to the mystery that surrounds the G spot.
The G spot, named after a German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg, has been talked about for years. Some women don't even believe it exists. But I have talked to many women who, after including G spot stimulation into their lovemaking have found it to be a powerful source of orgasm. Some speak of a different kind of orgasm altogether while others say that stimulation of the G spot at the same time the clitoris is being stimulated, brings about a larger, fuller, more all encompassing orgasm.
Even though it's difficult to reach, I think every woman should locate it and know what it feels like. Then she can tell her partner what to look for. With the woman laying on her back her partner inserts a finger, palm up, into the vagina. Then with the come here' motion of the finger, it's on the top wall of the vagina and forward toward the pubic bone. If that area is stimulated it will begin to rise and get rough in texture.
Many women have told me that stimulating the G spot during cunnilingus can create amazing orgasms for them. The main thing when learning about this is to notice what feels good. How a woman likes it stimulated and where will vary from woman to woman, and even from time to time. So have fun practicing, it's worth it. "The G Spot" & "The Art of Conscious Loving" are two good books on the subject.
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