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Was He a Good Lover?
The problem is that most men aren't able to receive advice on the topic of their sexual abilities. And even for those who do want to learn, they don't know what it means to have a softer touch, or to kiss more sensuously, or to simply slow down the process and pay enough attention to read the signs of how the woman is progressing. And when you think about it, how would most men learn to be good in bed? There's nothing in our society that is meant to teach men the finer points of sexual ability. I happen to think that women are, overall, more sexual than men. That's because women are more sensual. They are more inclined to enjoy the world through their senses because they are more in touch with their senses. They have been encouraged all their lives to be open to what the senses can tell. So it stands to reason that they are more sensually inclined when it comes to sex. When a sensually open woman has a partner who isn't very sensitive to the full possibilities of sexual expression, she's frustrated and eventually prefers not to have sex at all. When a man is too rough, lacks knowledge of female sexuality, and is too quick to "get to the point" the woman loses interest very quickly. I would really like to get your feedback on this because I am preparing an article for a major magazine. Would you please write to me and give me your comments and experiences on this topic. You can write to me here. I would really, really appreciate as much feedback as possible.
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The more time I spend studying the world of romance, love, relationships, and men, the more I am convinced about why women lose interest in sex. More often than not I think it is because most men don't have a clue about what it takes to be a good lover. I'm not even talking about a great lover. Those are rare and usually if they're too good, they're also pretty likely to need lots of variety. They didn't get good by reading Shakespeare. The frustration is that there's not much that can be done about this problem.
