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So, what can a woman do to improve her ability to orgasm? Well, first of all, she must know what she likes. What does it take for her to come to orgasm? The best way is for her to masturbate. No matter how comfortable she is with it, two books on the subject will be enlightening and helpful. One is The Hite Report by Shere Hite which shows how individual women can be. The other is How to Have an Orgasm as Often as You Want by Rachel Swift. This book gives page by page instruction on how to be more orgasmic, even if a woman has never had an orgasm. When a woman knows what she likes, communicating that to her partner is essential. This takes trust and a willingness to be vulnerable. If she let's him know it's difficult to talk about, it will help.

Most men get turned on by their partner enjoying sex and especially coming. In my workshops and interviews I hear men say all the time, "We want to make you happy, just tell us what you want." It's a turn-on to talk about what you like. Do it over a candlelight dinner by telling him what you'd like him to do to you. He'll probably ask for the check immediately. Another good time is while you're cuddling in bed before or after lovemaking. During lovemaking, move his hand or body or mouth where you like it, tell him harder, softer, faster, slower. Believe me, he's listening.

Learning to fully enjoy lovemaking is an ongoing process. It can be frustrating but if you're patient and willing to take a few risks, you'll both experience greater pleasure.
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