The Mysterious Female Orgasm
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If a woman's ability to orgasm isn't tweaked by all that, let's then add the damage caused by the media: am I sexy enough; is my body perfect enough; am I worldly enough?, and how can I compete with all those sexy women that stare out at me from every magazine, billboard, TV show and movie?
When they show sex on screen, the couple barely gets started, the man makes some sexy moves and she goes into wild, uncontrollable orgasms. Not only do women begin to think they're the only ones who can't do it like that, the men think that's the norm too, which adds more pressure on the woman who's trying to live up to her "perceived" idea of what her partner expects. Yikes!
The most important sex organ is the brain. When a man has any difficulty, almost always, it's in his head. If he's thinking about something, even sex, then trouble can arise. (Or maybe not. Pun intended.) For women, it's no different, but it's more difficult to turn off the thinking.
These are just some of the things that get in the way of a woman being able to let go, relax and completely immerse herself in the experience of lovemaking. continued  previous
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