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October 30, 2007

Hi all, it's Kara here,

It's been a few weeks since I sent out a newsletter. I've been working furiously to get everything ready for the launch of DatingSuccessTechnology.com so every moment has been pretty much focused on only that.

In this issue:
1) Take a Second Look At That Guy
2) Stop Your Paycheck Addiction
3) You Can't Put Humpty Dumpty Back Together Again

1) Take a Second Look At That Guy
I read lately that 20% of the women in a particular study married men that they had originally turned down after the first or second date. That's an impressive number. The men kept contacting the women, sometimes every six months, every every year, and eventually the women gave them a second chance.

If there's a man in your past that seemed like a great catch but "the chemistry wasn't there" you might want to rethink that notion. If you have his number you might say something like, "I don't know why but you just popped into my mind so I decided to give you a call and see how you're doing." If he's not attached, ask him if he'd like to go for a cup of coffee and catch up. If you do get together, this time, instead of looking at the superficial surface stuff, imagine your heart connecting to his via a golden flow of energy. Then see what kind of "chemistry" might be there. "Nothing ventured, nothing gained."

2) As I mentioned in my last newsletter, I went to a workshop in Las Vegas with my mentor, David Neagle. If you have any goals at all, you should get his fre*e set of CDs called The Art Of Success. You just pay for shipping. His philosophy works with any goal, including finding Mr. Right or transforming your existing relationship into something spectacular.

It was an amazing workshop. One of the women in my Mastermind group, Allison Babbs, has a wonderful program for anyone who wants to let go of what she calls their "Paycheck Addiction". She offers a fr*ee special report called "4 Simple Secrets To Ditching Your Corporate Job & Becoming a Solo Entrepreneur In Less Than A Year" which you can get right here

Even though this is not on the topic of relationships, most of us have jobs and some are not happy in them. For any of you who have been with me for a while, you know that I preach (some might say I harp on it) that if you're not happy, you're not attractive, you're not pleasant to be with, and sometimes you're downright repellent. So I'm for anything that will make you happier and more fulfilled. Take a look

3) You Can't Put Humpty Dumpty Together Again
A man called me a couple of evenings ago and wanted to know if my book, Men Made Easy, would help in his situation. He was separated because he'd done something to hurt his wife very badly. He didn't cheat, quite, but it was close enough to cause her to move out. One thing that I know for sure is that once that "bubble of trust" is broken, you cannot go back to the way it was. Impossible. So I told him that he would have to grovel (tell her what a stupid idiot he was), let her know that this thing knocked some sense into him and now he realizes he was taking her for granted and that she's the most important thing to him, and that they need to look at "today" as the first day of their relationship.

That means from this day forward, they are going to consciously create the relationship to be what they both want it to be. Ask each other how they want their marriage to look, what they need from each other, what they're willing to do, etc. Like creating the blueprint for a house, then board-by-board, start building it as you would a brand new house. If both are willing to do this and honor what they're creating together, their marriage can end up better than before the bubble was broken. Find out about Men Made Easy here.

I'll keep you posted as to when DatingSuccessTechnology.com will be launched. It's beyond anything you've seen before.

Until next time, I wish you mountains of love, romance, and happiness.

With much love,

"Celebrate Life–Be Happy!"

Kara Oh
The Heart Specialist™
P.O. Box 21803
Santa Barbara, CA 93121
Ph: 805-687-2448

~ If you haven't read Men Made Easy there are things about men you need to know. You can order here.

~ If you want to bring more life and love to your marriage you'll want to take a look at Marriage Made Easy.

~ And if you want your man to learn how to treat you like a queen you'll want him to read Women Made Easy.

How To Capture His Heart (A dating guide - coming soon)

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by Kara Oh
Ph: 805-687-2448
P.O. Box 21803, Santa Barbara, CA 93121

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