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AliveWithLove.com Home Only subscribers to the newsletter have access to this page. November 29, 2006 Hi all you lovely ladies (and you guys who want to learn about women), In this issue: 1) Dating the Wrong Guys I got an email from a woman yesterday that basically said she loves the guy she lives with but he has a girlfriend and what should she do? I get so frustrated when I hear how women lower themselves to be with a man, any man. When a woman doesn't care enough about herself to get out of this kind of situation, of course the man will treat her disrespectfully. She probably cooks, does laundry, cleans, and spoils him, trying sickeningly to get him to love her. Yuck! As most of you know, in my book, I teach Feminine Grace. Even though the book is about understanding men, it's more about developing self-confidence, self-love, self-assurance, and becoming someone you're proud to be. When a woman can become the best version of herself that she can imagine, she will not attract the wrong man. Or if she does, she will think highly enough of herself that she will not give that kind of man a moment of her time. I love it when I hear, "But I love him." Bull----! That's not love. That's some kind of dificiency need trying desparately to be filled. If a woman is afraid that she's not lovable, she's going to go with whomever comes along. She clings to him as if her life depended on it and she calls it love. A person, man or woman, can only love another to the degree that they love themself. I'm developing a dating workshop right now that will help women learn how to grow their self love, which in turn, will help them be able to attract better quality men. It's the only way that they will be able to have a fulfilling relationship. If you are constantly attracted to the wrong guy, look in the mirror. What's missing within you that you keep doing that to yourself? It's better to be alone than to be with someone who is disrespectful. But that takes inner strength, which is usually missing in someone who does not truly love and respect themselves. That's why we have personal growth books and workshops. There is no greater gift you can give yourself than to do personal growth work. And yes, it is work but once you begin the journey, it is the most fulfilling work you will ever do. So put yourself on your gift list and get a book, tape set, or workshop that will help you along your path to becoming your most amazing self. 2) New Look 3) Special "Girlfriend Gift" Offer 4) Shopping Warning If you would like to pass this along to a friend, please copy in its entirety or forward so that the unsubscribe links stays intact. With much love, Please feel free to forward this to all of your online friends. Your e-mail address will never be sold or shared with anyone. Your personal information will always be kept strictly confidential. Kara Oh is the author of Past issues menu here Kara Oh "We're here to make you happy."
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