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April 22, 2007

Hi, it's Kara here,

In this issue:
1) I'm Finally Going To Move You
2) Are You a Pit Bull?
3) Be Cautious
5) What Topics?
6) Doo-Doo Does Not Make You Beautiful

1) I've mentioned in the past that I'm going to move my mailing list to a new home and I've finally got everything set up to do so. What that means is you will receive a newsletter that will require you to resubmit to this new list. I'm really sorry to have to put you through that, but it will only take a couple of moments. Also, you can be assured that your email address is safe and no one else will ever have access to it.

2) Are You a Pit Bull?
Do you get an idea into your head about something that's bothering you and then can't let go of it? I do this to myself sometimes. I get going on something and it becomes all I think about. Usually it's some kind of fear or concern about what might be, and it's generally not grounded in anything real. It's funny, well, not really, that we seem to do this with negative thoughts and not positive thoughts. At least I do. So I want to try an experiment with you. I want you to select a good thought about yourself, your life, or your future and be a pit bull with it all week long, not letting go of that good thought. I'll do the same. What I want you to do at the end of the week is use this link so you can tell me how it went at Good Thought Pit Bull. I'll create a page on AliveWithLove.com with our experiences. Let's see what we come up with.

3) Be Cautious
I was driving in Santa Barbara on Thursday and as I was coming up to a corner where I was going to turn left, I saw a man laying on the sidewalk, next to the curb. He had a blue windbreaker over his head and shoulders but I could see his hands, which were playing an "air guitar." You know, moving his hands as if he's playing a guitar. I got to the corner and stopped. When I looked to the right I saw him flip me the bird. But I also noticed that it was a very angry gesture, with his arm pushing upwards, hard. This gave me the creeps so I locked my doors. Within 2 seconds he was up and pulling on my door handle. If I hadn't had the presence of mind to lock my doors I hate to think what might have happened. Fortunately I could make my left turn but he hung on as I took off. I saw him try to do the same thing to the car behind me. I called 911 right away so he could be picked up and not harm someone else. I'm going to get in the habit of locking my car all the time. I hope my experience will inspire you to be more cautious.

4) What Topics?
I want to make this newsletter as helpful to you as I possibly can. Would you mind taking a few moments to tell me what topics you would like me to write about in future newsletters? I'd really, really appreciate it if you would. What Topics Do You Want?

5) Doo-Doo Does Not Make You Beautiful
You know that I'm always harping on being beautiful, that that is the best way to get men to respond positively to you. And you know, especially if you've read Men Made Easy, that to get a man to love you and stay in love is not so much how beautiful you are physically but whether or not you treat him in a beautiful way. Well, a phenomenon that I've noticed is that when I have one little, tiny, itsy, bitsy thing cause me to get a little bit off center, then the next thing, which could be just as insignificant, causes me to react more strongly than if that first thing hadn't pushed my buttons. Does that happen to you? Once that gets started then everything seems to upset me. I call this the Doo-Doo Magnet Syndrome. It's like you become a magnet for doo-doo once you are even a little bit off center. I'm mentioning this because it plays into the pit bull thing. When this gets going, if I want it to stop, I switch over to thinking of my many blessings, all that I'm grateful for. It always disconnects the doo-doo magnet and makes me feel a whole lot better. Try it the next time the doo-doo starts piling up. You'll be much more beautiful.

~ If you haven't read Men Made Easy there are things about men you need to know. You can order here.

~ If you want to bring more life and love to your marriage you'll want to take a look at Marriage Made Easy.

~ And if you want your man to learn how to treat you like a queen you'll want him to read Women Made Easy.

Until next time, I'm wishing you mountains of love, romance, and happiness.

With much love,
Kara
"You draw to yourself that which you are." Oprah Winfrey
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