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The Key to Quick Results
The most effective way to get a man to change is to accept him as he is. Sound crazy? It works if it's sincere and respectful. When you try to get a man to change, he knows you don't think he's okay the way he is. Why should he? And he certainly won't feel understood. This makes him defensive. A defensive man is not able to be loving, caring, or romantic. In the beginning of a relationship you generally think the man is wonderful. Have you noticed that's when he can't get enough of you? That's when he thinks about you and calls you just to talk. That is also when he's romantic, takes you places, buys you gifts, and wants to give you the world. A man falls in love because of how you make him feel about himself. You make him feel like a man. When that newness wears off so does the sheen and you begin to see areas where he can be improved. And that's exactly when his desire to romance you begins to fade. It's a woman's nature to want to improve and beautify, but it backfires when it's the man she's trying to change. If you can bring yourself to accept him just as he is—and this may be really difficult at first—you'll see subtle shifts take place. As he feels understood, he learns to trust that you are sincere. That's when he'll relax and see you as the woman he fell in love with, because once again, you make him feel like a man and that's when love can blossom anew.
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"If you want men to respond to you in ways that are more caring, admiring, and loving, you must first begin to see them differently." 