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3) Does he enjoy doing things for you, fixing things, solving problems for you? Then he's probably a man who likes making you happy. How kind and considerate is he? Notice those little things like opening doors, looking out for your comforts, anticipating your needs. That's an inbred quality that bubbles up naturally.

4) Ask him about his family. Did he have a happy childhood, does he love his mother, his dad, does he have a good relationship with his siblings? Ask him about friends. If there are holes and problems in those areas, there's a possibility he has difficulty dealing with people. It can be a red flag. You want a man with heart. Go to The Friendship Game and The Relationship Game and pick questions that will give him an opportunity to share his heart. Pay attention to his temperament while he answers the questions. You can even print out the questions and cut them up and take turns pulling a question from a bowl. After all, he wants to get to know you better, too.

5) You have a built-in filter with your kids. It's an unusual man who is willing to take on another man's children. If he's willing to wait on sex, and wants to build a relationship with you, knowing you have kids, that's a sign of a quality man. Ask him about past relationships. How did they break up? Was it always the woman's fault or does he take responsibility for part of whatever caused the problems. Don't get into the little details because that doesn't serve either of you. He'll want to know about yours and don't tell him more than he wants to hear. Just the basics, not the minute details. continued    previous

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