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Is He For Real?
Have you ever wished you had a way of determining if a man is someone with whom you should be getting involved? Here are some suggestions for determining if a man is worth pursuing. Use it wisely, and trust your intuition and those red flags that pop up as you're getting to know someone. 1) Would your friends and family say they like him and that he seems like a quality guy? If the overall reaction is yes, that's a good sign. When your friends tell you a man isn't good for you, look closely at their concerns. Yes, they don't know him as well as you do, but their vision isn't clouded by his pretty words and your emotions.
2) One way to find out if a man is sincerely interested in you and looking for a long-term relationship is to request that you hold off on sex. You only want a man who respects your boundaries, wants to get to know the real you, and prefers to take however much time is required to determine if this might turn into a deeply loving and enduring relationship. Sex has a way of clouding one's vision. It makes it more difficult to be at all objective. If a man is willing to wait, then he's interested in something bigger. continued
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"Rarely do men share those deep feelings of failure with anyone else. They suffer in silence." 