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You're Ready To Get Married But He Isn't... What's Going On? Page 3
What does all this mean for you? Mostly, you get to feel what's going on for him and how different his view of marriage is from yours. But even more, he now knows you understand what he's going through, and that you won't pressure him, at least for a while, so he can prepare himself for what he says he wants...to be married to you, the women he loves. This will make you indispensable to him because, more than anything he needs to feel understood. If he's the right one, give him time, let him know you support him in what he has to go through, give him the understanding that he craves and he'll think you're the most amazing woman on the planet.
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Freedom to come and go as he pleases, to have sex with lots of beautiful women (his fantasy, by the way), and to focus on his career and himself. The biggest challenge, however, is the decision to take on the economic and emotional responsibility of another adult (you) and however many children the two of you have. For him, it's all about needing to be a good enough provider to take care of your needs, a house, two cars, and the expenses that grow as children grow. This is huge for most men. That's why, even though he may not want to even consider not having you in his life, he can't seem to get the proposal out of his mouth, or if he does, he breaks the engagement, too overwhelmed with what it means to take on all of those responsibilities.
