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A Quick Guide for Gals
2) Men are most attracted to happy women who genuinely like themselves and who enjoy being women. When you're happy, he feels successful. When you're a bottomless pit who never seems pleased by anything he does, he finally gets worn out and leaves. 3) Men hate it when a woman tries to change them. What it tells them is that they're not okay the way they are. That makes them feel attacked, which makes them put up defenses against those attacks...against you. A defended man cannot love a woman the way she wants. You can help him dismantle those defenses and once again open his heart to loving you...like in the beginning of your relationship when he thought you were the most wonderful woman on the planet.
4) Since they were boys, men have been taught not to feel. "Pick yourself up, don't cry, be a man." Those messages were taken to heart and as men, the only person they feel at all comfortable being intimate with, sharing at least a little of what's going on inside of them, is their wife. He'll begin to share things he may have never told you before, no matter how long you've been married. You really are his only source of intimacy. continued
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