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"We Want To Make You Happy, Just Tell Us How" Page 2
Being physical, sexual, verbal in expressing love, appreciation, happiness, discontent, sorrows--these for men are the outlets for emotion and their relationship is where they feel most comfortable expressing themselves. In this regard, she's invaluable to him.
If a woman wants a happy man there are several things she must do.
Otherwise, he will eventually burn out and leave, exhausted. A woman who honors this profound need that men have to make her happy, has an entirely different attitude toward men. She sees them as the magnificent people they are capable of being. She wants them to be men and not try to change them into something else. She gives them every opportunity to make her happy because she knows it makes them happy. She doesn't try to smother them, own them, mold them, or change them. She loves them for being men, not for what they might be. Men are generally happy that women are women. Notice the jokes are not about men turning women into a "do it yourself project." continued
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There's a spiritual aspect that's frequently ignored. Because women can create life within them, in pre-Christian time women were most connected to the source of life. She was men's tangible connection to God. In most cultures men need to be strong and powerful, whereas women have not. Consequently, women have been allowed and actually encouraged to stay in touch with their feelings, to express and share them. The one place where most men are willing to let their emotions be expressed is with their romantic partner.
