Why Men Hate Complaining
Secret #6 - To a man, failure is death.
"A woman has the power to override all other measures of success. Men Made Easy
This is a frequent question posed to Ms. Magic so I thought the answer would be something that could benefit all women who struggle with understanding men.
Dear Ms. Magic,
I am terrible at reading signs from men. I never seem to know if they are flirting with me or just being friendly. How can I tell if a man is flirting with me or not? Are there some sure fire signs that maybe I can look for? ~ Evangeline (28)
Dear Evangeline,
For starters, even though a man might be flirting with you, it doesn't necessarily mean anything. He probably is flirting if you feel like he is, but it doesn't mean that he wants to have anything deeper than some fun. If you look at flirting as just a nice way for people to be playful it will help you to relax and simply enjoy the fun and attention.
Because men are afraid of approaching a woman with a request to go out, flirting is a "safe" way to get your attention. If you like the guy and wish him to show more interest than just playing and teasing, sending some signals that will give him the green light is a good idea. If he doesn't respond then you can be sure it was "just" flirting. continued
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