AliveWithLove.com: Newlywed Test

The Newlywed Test

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Are you doing the things that will insure your relationship stays vibrant? Take our test and see how you score. If your score is low, it only means you need to start doing those things you did way-back-when you were falling in love.
Directions: Answer the following 10 questions by filling in the answer most consistent with your point of view.
Possible answers:
9 - 7 = definitely true
6 - 4 = moderately true
3 - 1 = not at all true

1. I tell my partner all the reasons why I love them.

definitely true

moderately true

not at all true

2. I compliment my partner.

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definitely true moderately true not at all true

3. I appreciate and thank my partner for what they do for me.

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definitely true moderately true not at all true

4. Instead of nagging, I make my requests with loving sensitivity.

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1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

5. I flirt with my partner in lots of creative ways.

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1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

6. I do thoughtful, loving things for my partner.

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1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

7. I'm considerate of my partners needs and desires.

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definitely true moderately true not at all true

8. I touch my partner in loving ways.

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1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

9. I plan fun activities for my partner and I to do together.

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1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

10. I let others know how lucky I am to have found my partner.

9
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1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

Scoring
70 - 90
The higher your score the better your chances of a long and loving marriage.
40 - 60
If your score is in the mid-range you're still doing well but you could easily slip into a comfortable routine of not remembering to nurture your relationship . That could begin a downward spiral.
0 - 30
If you score is in the lowest range you have some problems that need immediate attention or you will find yourselves in divorce court or slipping into The Settling.