The Marriage Test
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Has your marriage gotten tired? Have you become roommates who simply share expenses, chores and the same bed? Is it possible to revitalize your blah relationship? Take our test and find out. 

Directions: Answer the following 10 questions by filling in the answer most consistent with your point of view.

Possible answers:
9 - 7 = definitely true
6 - 4 = moderately true
3 - 1 = not at all true

    1. I focus on my partner's best qualities.

    9
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    1
    definitely true moderately true not at all true

    2. I never nag or complain because I know it creates disharmony.

    9
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    1
    definitely true moderately true not at all true

    3. I look forward to going to bed with my partner and at least cuddling.

    9
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    1
    definitely true moderately true not at all true

    4. I enjoy doing fun things with my partner.

    9
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    definitely true moderately true not at all true

    5. I love it when my partner touches me throughout the day.

    9
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    definitely true moderately true not at all true

    6. I do creative things to keep the romance alive.

    9
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    definitely true moderately true not at all true

    7. I only say flattering things about my partner to others.

    9
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    definitely true moderately true not at all true

    8. I speak kindly toward my partner when we're out in public.

    9
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    definitely true moderately true not at all true

    9. I look for ways to help my partner around the house.

    9
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    definitely true moderately true not at all true

    10. I love being married to my partner.

    9
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    1
    definitely true moderately true not at all true

Scoring

70 - 90 
The higher your score the more you are enjoying a rich and pleasurable marriage filled with love.

40 - 60
If your score is in the mid-range you're probably not paying much attention to your relationship.

0 - 30
If you score is in the lowest range you have some problems that need immediate attention or you will find yourselves in divorce court or slipping into The Settling. 

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