It Takes So Little to Please Most Men

“Men need a safe environment in which to express a fuller range of emotions. In our culture today, we, their romantic partners, are the only outlet for that expression.”    Men Made Easy

A loose and probably less-than-scientific poll––but significant all the same, because real men responded––was taken by the Fashion Police, a column featured in the Los Angeles Times Life & Style section.

Are you ready for something you already knew? Men, across the line, not only prefer, but absolutely, totally, inexplicably, LOVE women in pumps. And why not; we look beautiful, feminine, and sexy in them. And they hate big, fat, chunky shoes. I have to agree. Thank goodness shoes have become feminine once again. We look not only unfeminine in them, we look dumb. Yes, high heels hurt our feet, but once in a whilehttp://www.alivewithlove.com.for him?

The difficulty is getting our men to take us out so we can wear those pumps. Maybe that’s the key. “Hey, honey, will you take me dancing? I’ll wear those sexy high heels you love.” Another idea, maybe you don’t need to leave the bedroom.

What else do men go crazy for? Well, a lot of men like nail polish. But don’t let the nails get too long. They especially like polished toenails. Nail polish can turn ordinary feet into something sexy and beautiful. Notice how your feet look without nail polish. They’re just feet, right? Then look how feminine they become with some hot red polish. You’ve got to admit they’re prettier.

Any time you do something to look sexy for a man he’ll like it. It means you’re interested. And they definitely like that.

Of course there’s the garter belt thing. And how you take off a pair of stockings. Be the vamp that knows how to turn your man into putty. It’s an exhilarating experience. And it makes you feel gorgeous.

It’s interesting and kind of sad, but women often turn up their noses when I tell them about these sexy little things that men like. When I ask them if they’ve ever tried it, they’re the same ones who usually say no. Somehow it seems they think pleasing their husband or boyfriend in those ways is demeaning. Or maybe they don’t want to think their man has those kinds of desires.

When two people love each other, and no one will be harmed, why not give them whatever pleasure you can? It will keep him interested and wanting to please you, to do things to make you happy, to be your hero.

Does he do things for you? How does it feel when he does? Especially those thoughtful little things that show he’s sensitive to what you like. It goes both ways.Maybe he doesn’t do things for you. Maybe years ago, when you lost interest in sex and he had to demean himself to beg for it, he quit thinking of you as the women he adored. Or maybe you’re both deliriously happy with each other and things are off the charts. There’s still no reason why you can’t be imaginative and try new things.

In my book, Men Made Easy, I explain that the only way most men know how to be intimate is through sex. It is the one socially acceptable way for men to express their love. If you can go the extra mile and titillate him, you’re giving him the opportunity to show his love more often. So, get out those pumps and show that man of yours a really good time. –Show this article to your husband or boyfriend and ask him what he thinks. Then contact and tell me what he said.