http://www.alivewithlove.com/how-to-get-him-to-connect-more/540/ Kara Oh - Your Guide to Greater Love Sat, 28 Jan 2012 21:51:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.alivewithlove.com/how-to-get-him-to-connect-more/540/comment-page-1/#comment-134 cruiser Mon, 24 May 2010 17:42:50 +0000 http://www.alivewithlove.com/?p=540#comment-134 I have a new (2-3 months) boyfriend and my only real complaint about him is that he does not want to connect as much as I do--me every second, him every few days. He's a little relationship-shy but I am being patient because I think he could be worth taking my time and allowing him to trust me and get closer to me on his own timetable. We are not dating other people but he has stopped short of moving forward in any other way. I also do not inundate him with communications, as I am following his pace. I don't want to seem desperate or clingy. It's hard, but when I want to send him an email or text something, sometimes I wait 1/2 hour and then I usually don't feel as COMPELLED to send it as I did 1/2 hour before. Often I'm then doing something else anyway. I hope someone else can use that trick. He also has many more responsibilities than me so I try to keep that in perspective--a business, a teen aged daughter, etc. I am single and have a corporate job with a regular paycheck and no kids. I will continue to exercise my Feminine Grace and I will acknowledge that he has a lot going on and that I appreciate the time we have together and the times he takes to email and stuff. Thanks for reminding me to focus on the positive, let him be a problem solver and to use my Feminine Grace. I have a new (2-3 months) boyfriend and my only real complaint about him is that he does not want to connect as much as I do–me every second, him every few days. He’s a little relationship-shy but I am being patient because I think he could be worth taking my time and allowing him to trust me and get closer to me on his own timetable. We are not dating other people but he has stopped short of moving forward in any other way. I also do not inundate him with communications, as I am following his pace. I don’t want to seem desperate or clingy. It’s hard, but when I want to send him an email or text something, sometimes I wait 1/2 hour and then I usually don’t feel as COMPELLED to send it as I did 1/2 hour before. Often I’m then doing something else anyway. I hope someone else can use that trick. He also has many more responsibilities than me so I try to keep that in perspective–a business, a teen aged daughter, etc. I am single and have a corporate job with a regular paycheck and no kids. I will continue to exercise my Feminine Grace and I will acknowledge that he has a lot going on and that I appreciate the time we have together and the times he takes to email and stuff. Thanks for reminding me to focus on the positive, let him be a problem solver and to use my Feminine Grace.

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