How Can I Turn Her On?
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Women tell me over and over that men need to slow down. They mean emotionally as well as physically--the two being deeply connected. They need their partner to take his time with each stage of lovemaking.
Many women are unable to tell a man what they like and want. Some of that is due to embarrassment. But, sometimes women don't know what they require because they have never masturbated and/or have never had a good lover. Some have never had an orgasm so they don't know what they're trying to accomplish.
A woman needs to get in the mood to get in the mood. She needs to let go of the day to be open to getting in the mood to make love. Romance reminds her that you care, keeps her soft, open, and feeling loved. Then, when you want to move to more obvious arousal, she's emotionally available.
Arousing a woman to sexual readiness is an art form, like the natural flow of a modern dance. Women like to be kissed, nibbled, stroked with a feather touch, looked at like you care, hear endearing, appreciative and "honestly" flattering words. For many woman, the entire body is erogenous. The best is to experiment and get feedback from her sounds and movements. continued 
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