The Enticing Threesome
It's amazing how often people, mostly men, ask me what I think of threesomes. I have talked to a lot of people who have tried it, and have read and heard a lot of professionals give advice on the subject, and it seems that, overall, it's not a good idea.
There are a variety of problems that arise when a couple moves into this arena. One that happens more often than you might think is the two women (generally a threesome is with two women and one man) become attracted to each other and the man, who frequently instigates the get-together, gets jealous.
Another problem is the breakdown of the special intimacy that had developed before the third party disrupted it. And finally, the fact that you need to go to that kind of extreme to lend variety to the relationship is a red flag that there are other problems to look at.
Many I have talked to and read about say the threesome broke up their marriage. Probably, things were going bad already, and this just moved the process along.
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