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Is The Perfect Partner Just A Fairy Tale? Page 3
Then, go back to the long list and find the items that you must have, but could come later. I happen to want a world traveler. I could probably teach someone the joys of traveling the world later on. This is not about changing someone, however. No home improvement projects allowed. Get these lists out frequently so you can remind yourself that you're looking for more than just a pretty face. Stay in touch with your friend who has the "must have" list. Be honest with them about whether or not the new person you're dating has these qualities and traits. If not, say good-bye and keep searching. Use your friend as support. If you're clear and firm about this, you won't waste time and you'll manifest your perfect partner much sooner.
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After you feel you really have completed your list, go through and pick the things that absolutely must be in place when you meet this person. An example would be integrity. That's something that, generally, as an adult, a person already has, or not. My list had eight items. This is the list you carry around with you. Give a copy to a trusted friend. If any of these things are missing, you must say good-bye to any new person you meet. If you don't, you're not being true to yourself and you'll pay for it later.
