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Online Dating is Here To Stay Page 3
Take your time before meeting face-to-face. There's a lot to be learned over the phone and it keeps the mystery building. Once your gut says, "Yes, this guy is too interesting not to get better acquainted" then it 's time to set up that first meeting and see what happens. Be prepared not to want to see each other again. More often than not, once you meet in person, see each other's faces for real, feel each other out in ways that aren't even discernible chances are there will be something, even a smell that you are not conscious of, that will cause one of you to find that the spark just isn't there. That's okay. It doesn't say anything about each other except that it's just not a fit. Thank each other for the opportunity to meet and wish each other well. Then say to yourself, "Next."
Falling in Love Over the Internet
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Or, "What's the most fun you ever had?" Then, shut up and listen. Too often, we don't listen because we're so excited to say what we want to say next, then wonder why they don't turn out to be that interested.
