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Online Dating is Here To Stay Page 2
When answering essay questions, emails and during phone conversations, be as clever and interesting as you know how to be, but don't try to be something that just isn't you. It will eventually come out and then there are two unhappy people. When I answered my essay questions, I began with "Once upon a time there was a fair maiden", and kept the theme throughout my ad. The emails I got were really fun, clever and playful.
Be interesting and interested. Of course you like someone who is interested in you, but so do they. Balance out the time so you both get to ask and answer questions. Ask questions that get to the heart of the person, without prying. Questions like, "What gives you the greatest satisfaction at this time in your life?" continued
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To begin, pick a service that is easy to negotiate and feels good to you. Answer the questions truthfully. Men have told me that more often than not, women lie about their weight and their age. Women tell me they think a man they've developed a nice connection with won't mind once they finally meet. MEN DO MIND! For one thing, they don't like that you try to fool them. Also, men are visual and are not usually attracted to women who are overweight. I'm sorry to say that it's a simple fact. But there are men who do like women with a little added weight, or don't care that much. So why not be honest and find those guys up front? If you're insecure about your weight, it's going to show up in your personality and you won't be that appealing. Beauty comes from within, from a deep and abiding love for yourself. If that's not there, you're not going to be attractive to anyone.
