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Become a Low Maintenance Woman Page 2
Ladies, here are some suggestions that might help you be more in the moment with the men you date. The benefit is, you'll have more fun and so will the men you're with. With every man you date, be yourself. Don't try to be what you think he's looking for. Eventually the real you will show up and if that's not what he was attracted to in the first place, he'll quit calling and you'll wonder what happened. Why would you want him to be attracted to anything that isn't you anyway? If you're concerned with how you "ought" to be, you can't relax and be yourself. Be comfortable with who you are. Men are most attracted to women who are confident and happy. Self confidence takes conscious effort to develop, but well worth it. Being happy takes acceptance and trust. The way I accept is to set my goals, do everything I can to make them happen, then hand the outcome over to the universe.
Part of being happy is to accept that you're single. Otherwise, there's always a feeling of angst. If you do marry one day, consider it a gift from the gods and enjoy a new chapter in your life. Create a strong network of close friends. Enjoy your independence. Have a full, active life of your own. Smile--a lot. You'll feel better and so will everyone around you. continued
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Unfortunately, I hear these complaints all the time. It's a dilemma for many women, because most do want to get married. Many want to make babies, which means they need financial assistance from a husband.
