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Become a Low Maintenance Woman
What he was looking for, especially in the beginning of a relationship, was a woman who could enjoy the process of getting to know one another, have fun, be spontaneous, and if, eventually, there was sex, to have fun with that too. He had two issues of concern. First, he wanted to know why everything had to mean something. He felt the women he dated were unable to be in the moment because they had their radars up, searching for a husband. He wished a woman could just relax and enjoy him, the movie, the dinner. He felt like everything a woman does is calculated to attract him as a husband. He didn't understand why it isn't okay to just be friends and even occasionally include sex?
Second, he wanted to know why, almost always, it was assumed he was responsible for everything--the first conversation, the first phone call, the planning of dates. Plus paying for most, if not all, of the dates. continued
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On a beach walk a couple of weeks ago, a good friend and subscriber asked me to write about high maintenance women. He meant the kind of women who always seem to have an agenda and lots of expectations.
