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Finding Mr. Right
The first thing you have to know is that there is no one Mr. Right out there. Mr. Right doesn't have to be tall, dark or handsome. He doesn't have to like long walks on the beach. He doesn't even have to say "I love you" (that is, if that isn't something you desire). Mr. Right does, however, have to fit all of your requirements for the perfect mate. How do you define your requirements? You date. Make Your List and Check It Twice With every date you go on, you have an opportunity to decide what you do like and what you don't like in a man. Here's the key: write it down! Make a list of all that you desire in a partner and all the things you won't stand for. Do you want a man who is outgoing or introverted? Do you want someone who is dominant or submissive? Do you want to be kept, or do you want to do the keeping? Knowing the qualities you want in a man and a relationship will help you identify Mr. Right when you meet him. There is one important point to remember, however. Truly knowing what you want in a man requires an understanding of men. You must understand what drives them to be a better partner for the woman they are with. No book can give you a better understanding of men and their relationships with women than Men Made Easy by Kara Oh. This book will not only help single women define their perfect Mr. Rights according to their dreams and desires, it can also help attached women bring the Mr. Right out in the man they already have.
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In order to find Mr. Right, you first have to know what he looks like. That's what dating is all about. Most people think the purpose of dating is simply to find Mr. Right, but that is only half of the purpose. The other half is to identify what Mr. Right looks like to you.
