A “Husband Shopping Center”

A “Husband Shopping Center” was opened where a woman could go to choose from among many men for a husband. It was laid out in five floors, with the men increasing in positive attributes as you ascended up the floors. The only rule was, once you opened the door to any floor, you must choose... Continue reading

Non-Monogamy, An Alternative?

Let’s talk today about open marriages. I have strong opinions about this because this is the idea that began the breakup of my 29-year marriage so I’ll try to stay objective.   Intellectually, how could we want to deny our partner any source of happiness? That was my struggle. But my heart... Continue reading

How Your Differences Can Make You Closer

Your relationship cannot be as close as you’d like it to be if you’re not willing to shift your attitude about your differences, i.e. what causes the friction between you. In the beginning, you probably thought his differences were cute, adorable, enchanting even. As you became more familiar,... Continue reading

Five Things a Woman Can Do to Improve Her Relationship – Right Now!

#1. Instead of complaining, whining, or raising your voice, speak softly with clear, concise, respectful, and loving language. How do you do that? Before you “react” stop for however long you need in order to calm yourself. Walk away, explaining that you need to collect your thoughts before continuing.... Continue reading

A Sad Killer of Love

Belittling our partner––or a child, for that matter––either directly or by innuendo, is a direct hit to the heart. Eventually, love is replaced by resentment, loathing or even hate. In the moment, we don’t realize the damage we’re causing when we belittle those we “say”... Continue reading

How To Get Your Husband To Pick Up His Socks

Socks are a metaphor for whatever you want to get him to do. This video explains how to get him to want to do those things that will make you happy. If you’ve been nagging and complaining for a while, it might take a few attempts, but once you get this technique down, you’ll both be a lot... Continue reading

How To Create a Healthy Relationship

The first step to creating a healthy relationship is to know what a healthy relationship looks like. A healthy relationship is a partnership in which each person helps and supports the other in being exactly who they are and inspiring them to continue to grow and expand their potential for loving, giving,... Continue reading