Be Sexy and Sensual

“As you cultivate your Feminine Grace, you’ll like your body more, be more comfortable expressing yourself, and relax. As you do so, your ability to enjoy sex will expand and you’ll become a more enthusiastic, available partner. The more you do that, the more love and intimacy you will... Continue reading

Sex Is More Than Orgasms

When you let go of orgasm as the goal, a lot of things can happen:   You can move into more freedom of expression.   You can focus on your partner.  You can get lost in what you’re doing, and feeling. The pressure to perform is off. You’ll move from having sex to making love. You’re... Continue reading

Monogamy, Is It Worth It?

This is a big subject but I have a few ideas I’d like to share from my workshops and from my studies of cultural anthropology. I believe men’s nature is to have multiple partners. Polygamy (the practice of having more than one wife at a time) is preferred by 85% of the cultures today. Think... Continue reading

Fake It, Moi?

Why do women fake orgasm? Here are several reasons: Women know that men love it when a woman has an orgasm.  They know men feel they’re a better lover and more of a man when they “make her come.”  Women fear the man will think there’s something wrong with them if they aren’t... Continue reading

Was He a Good Lover?

The more time I spend studying the world of romance, love, relationships, and men, the more I’m convinced about why women lose interest in sex. More often than not I think it is because most men don’t really know what it takes to be a good lover. I’m not even talking about a great lover.... Continue reading

Tied Up and Loving It

Have you ever tied up your partner? Maybe dressed up in a black garter belt, stockings (with seams of course), high heels, and a sexy bra and panties? How about a wig?   This is a fantasy you could bring to life. There are few men who wouldn’t love this scene to be really happening to them. After... Continue reading

Penis Envy — I Don’t Think So!

Hey ladies, here’s something wonderful to do with your partner’s penis that you may not have thought of.   For a different way to pleasure yourself, lay close to your partner, face to face. Now, take his penis in your hand and begin to stroke your clitoris with it. If his penis is slightly... Continue reading

Lingerie, A Powerful Turn-On

Men are visually stimulated. It probably stems from the first men of our species. The more easily they were aroused, the more frequently they would have sex, and the more of their off-spring would inhabit, and propagate the planet. the men walking around today are descended from those quick-to-get-aroused... Continue reading

How To Fit Sex Into Your Career

There’s a “high” that comes with achievement, respect, power, and money. That high keeps you motivated and focused on your career track but does sex somehow get lost in the shuffle? What if you could create that same kind of high and focus regarding your love life?   The physical... Continue reading

The Fine Art of Fellatio — Oral Sex for Him

This article is for women who would like to improve their skills at fellatio and is a companion piece to a recent article that I wrote called ” The Art of Cunnilingus — Oral Sex for Her“. And it’s for men who would like to have their partner be better at it by being able to communicate... Continue reading

The Art of Cunnilingus — Oral Sex for Her

In all matters of making love to a woman, it’s especially effective to tease and tantalize her, allowing her arousal to build. Men generally get aroused with little or no help but it usually takes a lot more for a woman. When I was teaching my workshops on sexuality I always asked the women what... Continue reading

Exercise Your Sex Muscles

Kegel exercises are important for a variety of reasons. For women, it keeps them from being incontinent. If you pee a tiny bit when you sneeze, laugh hard, or jump rope, you need to do your Kegels. Many women who have never experienced orgasm are able to after strengthening their pubococcygeus or PC... Continue reading

The Mysterious Female Orgasm

Most of you are aware that orgasm doesn’t always come easily for a women. Women are more complicated than men, which is in no way meant to put men down. On the contrary, men have a gift of being able to focus, and in bed, it’s a real bonus. Women, on the other hand, are able to, and usually... Continue reading

Talking Turn-Ons

A great way to add spice to your love life, keep your partner’s interest up (so to speak), as well as your own, is to talk sexy. The best way to describe what I mean is to give you some examples.   In bed: During lovemaking, in those times of rest, in between the high energy times, talk about... Continue reading

Sex and Your Busy Mind

Have you ever found yourself unable to enjoy sex because you were preoccupied with your to-do list? It’s a common complaint I get from both men and women. The busier our lives are, the more likely it will creep into the bedroom.   The best way to deal with this dilemma is, when you find yourself... Continue reading

The Ultimate Wake-Up Call

We girls love to surprise our men. This is one surprise he’ll absolutely love. Wake him up by very carefully snuggling down under the covers, finding his penis and putting it into your mouth. If it’s soft, just hold it gently and suck, lick, and swirl.   Enjoy the privacy of it being just... Continue reading

In Celebration of Life, Love and Happiness

Life can be a celebration, filled with amazing experiences. Many of these experiences are sensual in nature. They’re all around us if we just open ourselves to them: a warm shower in the morning, a good belly laugh, the morning light behind delicate petals of a flower, the cool feel of silk, a... Continue reading

How Long Should You Wait To Have Sex?

Here’s one of the most typical questions I get. Maybe it will help you next time you meet a man you’re interested in: Dear Kara, I was just watching your four videos on your Men Made Easy website and found them very interesting. And I saw the contact botton, lol, and thought I could get some... Continue reading

Seven Secrets Of Couples Who Love Sex

1) They know sex doesn’t always mean intercourse. Any physical loving is sex, even for a few minutes in the morning. Commit to being sexual at least once a day. 2) They pencil each other in. They make time for sex. 3) They launch sneak attacks. Flirting, touching, sexy notes and messages at unexpected... Continue reading