3 Ways To Spice Up a Long Distance Relationship

Women frequently ask me what they can do to keep their long distance relationship strong. A problem for most men is they need to be in the presence of their woman more frequently than women do. That’s because women are so good at using their imagination to fantasize about their guy. But men don’t... Continue reading

Is the Perfect Partner Just a Fairy Tale?

Do you have a realistic idea of what you’re looking for in a partner, or is a fairy tale running the show? How often do you stop to consider exactly what you want and why? How conscious are you when it comes to looking for that “special someone”? Are you aware of the power of setting... Continue reading

3 Surefire Ways To Know If He’s Really Into You

It breaks my heart how many women struggle in the early stages of dating a new man. By early stage, I mean you don’t know where you stand or how he feels. In my years of coaching women more often than not, they start moving things along toward a relationship before they know how he feels about... Continue reading

How to Get Your Ex Back

It’s not uncommon, when a woman who is wanting to get her ex back, for her to purchase my Men Made Easy program, hoping it will help her.  Because any woman who embraces what I teach will find herself changing in many positive ways, there is a chance that she could get him back. That’s because... Continue reading

How to Be Happy and More Attractive to Men

Being happy is the best way to be attractive to men. But what if you’re not feeling happy? What if you’re actually feeling depressed? If you’re dating and looking for a great guy, he is either going to be repelled by your negative energy, or you will simply be invisible to him. If you’re... Continue reading

3 Reasons Why You Should Not Pursue a Man

If you want to be in a happy, long-term relationship, it’s important to know what you need to do so you don’t blow it from the start. You see, the greatest joy for any woman who want’s a man to make her feel cherished, is how good it feels when he pursues you. Way too often, as today’s... Continue reading

Don’t Dump Him Over Something Dumb!

How to get a man to do what you want. Women often write to me describing a terrific man, then they finish with, “But there’s this one thing…” Sometimes it’s a big deal and I let them know this is not something you want to get involved with. But often, it’s something... Continue reading

Why Men Disappear For No “Apparent” Reason

I got yet another another woman writing to ask what happened to the man she was involved with. They’d been seeing each other for five months.   “He told me he loved me and wanted to marry me.”  Over the last month he’d stopped calling and this week he stopped responding to her... Continue reading

How Often Should You Call Him?

Women write to me all the time wondering how often it’s okay to call, text and email a new man. I think they ask because at an instinctual level, they know whatever they’re doing is probably too much. So here are some guidelines so you will avoid the mistake of scaring a man off by being... Continue reading

When An Ex Wants To Be Just Friends

What do you do when an ex wants to get back together, but you think it might be just as friends, and you still have feelings for him? This is a dangerous thing to do because it will keep you stuck in heartache.  When you still have feelings and get back together as a couple, it is too painful to have... Continue reading

Money Worries Can Lead To Fewer Dates

If you find men not paying much attention to you in the next coming weeks, it might not be you, it might be money worries. With what is going on in the economy men tend to go inward when they are concerned about their finances or their jobs. They aren’t thinking about dating other than maybe to get... Continue reading

Being Needy Is Not How You Attract a Man

Of course, when you are looking for a man, you want to be as attractive as you can. But there are subtle things you might be doing that will not attract man, but instead, actually repel them. A common mistake women unconsciously make when they go on a date is to come across as needy. Women do it more... Continue reading

7 Tips For Successful Online Dating

#1 – Trust Your Intuition Online dating requires a strong connection to your intuition. Every person I’ve spoken to about a bad experience has told me that they ignored their intuition. If you get taken in by salespeople, get your heart broken easily, or you’re afraid of strangers, you should not... Continue reading

How To Meet a Good Man

You’ve heard of “self talk,” right? Well, all those things you tell yourself, either silently or out loud, become beliefs. I hear women say things like, “All men are morons,” “All of the good men are taken,” “I hate dating,” “Dating is such... Continue reading

He May Dump You When He’s Stressed

If you’re still developing a relationship with a man and he begins to pull away, one reason might be because of job or money stress, dealing with children issues, or parents. These are all things he has no choice but to deal with them. If you’re not yet an established couple, it’s very... Continue reading

Have You Done a Reality Check on Him?

Many woman write to me complaining that the man they’re seeing isn’t fulfilling their needs. They want to know what they can do to convince him to do all the things they want in order to be happy in the relationship.  The point of being in a relationship should be because it makes you feel... Continue reading

The First Time, Yikes!

When to have sex for the first time with a new person is always an interesting dilemma. There’s so much involved in the decision: fear of pregnancy, fear of disease, fear of being labeled easy if your a woman, pushy if you’re a man, fear that you won’t click, fear that you won’t... Continue reading

Why You Shouldn’t Rush the Relationship

One of the most prevalent things women do is try to rush things. We tend to want to know “where do we stand as a possible couple, where is this going, how does he feel, what’s he thinking.” Unless you have some dire urgency to know now, why not enjoy this sweet and tender part of the... Continue reading

When You’re Looking To Get Him To Commit Long-Term, Be Positive

Of course, being positive, is universal advice but when you’re dating and looking for his long-term commitment, it’s really important that you develop the habit of being a positive person. One of men’s greatest fears is that the woman they fall in love with will turn into someone who... Continue reading

How to Build Your Confidence

Is shyness or insecurity keeping you from having what you want? Here’s a simple way to get over it and experience more joy in your life. Men agree that one of the most attractive qualities in a woman is when she’s self-assured, likes herself, is comfortable with who she is, likes how she... Continue reading

Should Women Pursue Men?

A woman wrote to me for advice today, wanting to know if she should pursue a man she’s interested in, like her girlfriend advised… because men are, as she put it, “thick as a brick.” Here’s my advice, which some might call old fashioned. But since I’m a nationally... Continue reading

Insist On Respect and He’ll Value You

For years I’ve been telling women they set the tone of a relationship. If you’re with someone who doesn’t respect you, that’s your fault. Hey, don’t get all huffy with me. From the first conversation, you had the chance to insist on respect… or not. That’s the... Continue reading

Online Dating Question: Should I Wink At Him?

A woman wrote to me wanting to know if she should wink at a man on a dating site. Well, I’m a big believer in letting the man do the work of winning us over. But, in the usual way, when you are both physically in one place, I also teach women to give the man a clear message that it’s safe... Continue reading

Do Men Think You’re Scary?

A male friend came over last evening to enjoy a glass of wine with me. As we often do, we started commiserating about our love lives. He is in his 60’s and still searching for a special woman to love. He was telling me about some of the women he’s met over the past few months and his overall... Continue reading

Is Your Ex Controlling Your Love Life?

This may seem like a crazy question but you’d be surprised how many women I coach on their dating who literally are allowing their ex boyfriends or husbands to control their love lives. What I’ve noticed is they let past relationships color their future attempts at love. I know one woman... Continue reading