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Have you ever thought about why you date? Isn't it for finding Mr. or Ms. Right? Well, yes and no. I realized, after answering too many questions from women and, yes, men, who needed to let go and move on, what the real purpose of dating is, or, should be. One reason we date is to have fun, go out, do things as a couple because let's face it, the world is organized around coupledom. But another, more useful purpose of dating is to learn. We need some experience to learn what we want in a partner, what we don't want, how to communicate our needs, how to serve the other's needs without disrespecting ourselves, and what it feels like to love, be loved, and even how to be strong enough to part when we know it's time.