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A question from a hurt woman:

Dear Kara,
Why does my husband spend a couple of hours looking at porn on the internet then goes to bed and straight to sleep every night? What’s wrong with me? The girls he looks at are the complete opposite of me (looks wise). Am I just something he settled with because I make him look good. And the other girls is what he really wants? I’m so confused, hurt, unsure, and frustrated.
Carmen

My response to her:

Dear Carmen,
I don’t know why men prefer porn to real women but once a man gets hooked (addicted) to porn, he loses touch with reality and has a difficult time being with real women. I don’t know what to tell you. Do you have children? If not, you might want to look into your heart and determine if you want to spend any more time with a man who doesn’t make love to you. Does he take you out on dates? Does he do anything to make you feel special? Does he do nice things for you? If you are not getting anything out of the relationship you need to ask why you are with him. If you have children, then you need to do whatever you can to convince him to “join the family”. Your children need a father who interacts with them. I hope this gives you some food for thought.

With much love,
Kara