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My boyfriend, Chris, has taken me to ski in Utah over the long weekend. Tonight he took me to La Caille, an absolutely amazing restaurant. All the waitresses wear very low cut long dresses. One of the servers was an attractive blond but she had on black mascara, heavy black liner, and probably dark gray shadow. She also had a set to her jaw and a kind of energy that said she likes “bad boys.” Chris couldn’t see it. Then he realized that he doesn’t pay that kind of woman much attention because he instinctively knows he’d be rejected because he isn’t her type. He didn’t know that she was advertising for a bad boy. He’s not a bad boy so he just knew he would ger rejected if he approached her or a woman like her.

I told him that all woman who enjoy attracting men are like billboards. Our selection of wardrobe, hair, and makeup are all advertising for our kind of man. My question to you is, are you advertising for the kind of man you are really wanting to be with? If you are still in the exploratory stage and not ready to settle down, then why not try them all. But if you are clear about what you are looking, be sure that your billboard says what you want it to say.

With much love,
Kara