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When I was having lunch with my friend yesterday he also mentioned one of the slippery slopes of online dating services. He said that even when you meet someone really interesting, there’s always that temptation when you get back home, no matter how great the date was, to check to see if someone even better might have just joined. He said it’s a trap that is way too easy to fall into and it keeps you from trying harder to get to know someone you’ve been out with.

If you find yourself doing this you might want to avoid that temptation (if you can) and just focus on one at a time. I’ve noticed that my girlfriend in Los Angeles does the same thing and when I tried online dating I admit I did it too. So how can we avoid missing an opportunity to get to know someone without the distraction of what’s “next” in line. Any suggestions?

I’ll think about this and write a post again this week.

Hugs for now,
Kara