A woman wrote this week and because I didn’t respond right away, her email is somewhere on my list and I can’t find it. So here are my thoughts on getting involved with a married men: DON’T DO IT! Don’t flirt; don’t "we’re just having lunch"; don’t have "just an emotional" affair; just don’t go there. Why? Because you’re both out of integrity. That’s why we call it cheating. It’s lying, it’s stomping on promises made, it’s hurtful, it creates bad energy, bad Karma, bad everything. And, HEAR THIS, if you get involved with a man who is married, you are getting involved with a man who cheats.
My mother dated a married man, they got married, then he cheated on her. I always wondered why she was surprised. Once someone discovers how easy it is to cheat, they’re more likely to do it again. There’s something about crossing that sacred line the first time. Once it’s done, it’s done. And why would you want a man who cheats? If he has a sob story about his bad marriage, pay attention to what he would be like as a husband. If he has children then you are a home wrecker, no matter how bad his marriage might be. Children need all the help they can get. Your soul can’t handle that kind of Karma. And what about the sister thing? How can you do that to another woman? Imagine if it was you waiting at home while your husband is having a good time with another woman. On every level, it’s a really bad idea.
So, as you can tell, I have very strong feelings about this. Because my husband of 29 years cheated, I lost respect for him, could no longer trust him, and consequently, didn’t want love a man I could not trust or respect. Find a good man you can respect and look up to. They’re out there, you just need to learn how to find them, attract them, and reel them in. I’m here to teach you how. I did it, so can you…
I wish you much love,
Kara
The Heart Specialist™
