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When I interviewed men for my book, a standard question I asked was, “What Don’t you like about women?” A complaint that came up a lot is that so many women blame the new man for what the previous man did, or what the ex from years ago did.

Let’s look at this. You’re on a date so it is a fair assumption that you are looking for a man with whom to share some aspect(s) of your life. Maybe you don’t want to get married, but you’d like to have a companion with whom you can enjoy movies, dinners, occasional sex, and maybe a vacation once in a while. No matter what you’re looking for, what man in his right mind, would want to have anything to do with a woman who is angry at men or who wants to blame him for something some other man did.

I get complaints from women all the time that they can’t figure out why a man simply doesn’t call ever again. There are lots of reasons but maybe it’s because you’re one of those angry women. You’re not sure? Ask a male friend, or a brother. They’ll know because this stuff can’t be hidden for long.

If you really are looking for a man to share your life with, you need to let go of the anger towards men. Sure, there are a lot of horrible men out there who do really bad things, some are jerks, rude, obnoxious, and some are simply clueless. But if you want a man to be open to getting to know you better, you had better quit making all men guilty even before they’ve had a chance to show you who they are.

If you can see that you are one of those angry women, and you’d like to turn your love life around, you might want to read my chapter on Feminine Grace. It might help. Just go to http://www.AliveWithLove.com/beauty/feminine.html . We each need to take responsibility for our actions and how we treat people. This chapter could make a difference for a variety of reasons. it’s free so take a look.

With much love,
Kara