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In order to find Mr. Right, you first have to know what he looks like. That’s what dating is all about. Most people think the purpose of dating is simply to find Mr. Right, but that is only half of the purpose. The other half is to identify what Mr. Right looks like to you.
The first thing you have to know is that there is no one Mr. Right out there. Mr. Right doesn’t have to be tall, dark or handsome. He doesn’t have to like long walks on the beach. He doesn’t even have to say “I love you” (that is, if that isn’t something you desire). Mr. Right does, however, have to fit all of your requirements for the perfect mate. How do you define your requirements? You date.
Make Your List and Check It Twice
With every date you go on, you have an opportunity to decide what you do like and what you don’t like in a man. Here’s the key: write it down! Make a list of all that you desire in a partner and all the things you won’t stand for. Do you want a man who is outgoing or introverted? Do you want someone who is dominant or submissive? Do you want to be kept, or do you want to do the keeping? Knowing the qualities you want in a man and a relationship will help you identify Mr. Right when you meet him.
There is one important point to remember, however. Truly knowing what you want in a man requires an understanding of men. You must understand what drives them to be a better partner for the woman they are with. Because my book,
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Easy,, is all about understanding men and knowing what to do to get what you want from them, it will help you define your perfect and for those who are already in as relationship, it helps women bring out the Mr. Right that is just needing a little coaxing.
With much love,
Kara
July 7th, 2006 at 4:43 pm
Kara:
I enjoy all your hints. At least one hour before my date (he may be the one) picks me up, I make it a point to read a page or two from your book as a quick refresher. I also read some of your hints. These routine helps prepare my mind and reminds of what a truly beautiful and powerful woman I am. My power has grown since reading your book and all the hints your send regularily. It helps strengthen my resolve to build a strong, loving, and caring relationship. I’ve completely changed my approach from thinking men are suppose to be perfect and give me what I want and they should be mind readers (which was why I was always disappointed) to a new approach of love, respect, acceptance, honest communication, and consideration from me to him. I’ve transformed my thinking. I have always considered my self to be a happy, strong, confident, and intelligent woman, but when it came to dating, something would happen and I just couldn’t get it right. I would become insecure and that insecurity would sabatoge me. This no longer happens. Thanks to your book, I’m well on my way to fulfilling that one area of my life that needed some long due attention, the love of a man. -*-Tish
July 7th, 2006 at 5:08 pm
Wow! What a wonderful ad for Men Made Easy. Thank you. I’m really thrilled to hear that my book is helping you in so many ways. I really appreciate the time you have taken to share your experiences.
With much love,
Kara