I just found this from a 2002 newsletter and thought it would be fun to share it with you:

No woman should ever change herself just to get a man to want her. She should never change for the sake of change, rather she should “improve” herself to become her best, most magnificent self because she loves herself, feels she’s worthy of all the best that life has to offer. Any efforts to improve herself for a man should be because she respects the man totally and completely and want’s to rise to a higher level to meet him. Self-improvement should be a lifelong path toward greater levels of happiness and spiritual joy. By spiritual I mean appreciating the gift of life and all that exists in the universe.

I hope that all makes sense. If you ever need to go inside and do some serious soul-searching for the answers that are already inside of you, you can talk with your Inner Wise Woman. I have instructions for a special process in the Wise You section. ( http://www.AliveWithLove.com/wise/wise.html) It’s a really powerful process that can be used for just about any issue you’re struggling with. You have all the right answers within you, it’s just a matter of knowing how to access them.