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You Can Be More Alluring Page 3
It was funny how often men said they were attracted to a woman who had good posture. When you stand straight you're physically more attractive, you tell the world you're proud of who you are, comfortable with how you look, and someone said, "It makes your boobs stick out." That may be all it is, but I think a woman who stands tall is truly beautiful. A woman with bad posture, even a classically beautiful woman, falls short. (pardon the pun :-) 5. Flirt, but keep it subtle.
Men said the only thing that was more scary than approaching a new woman, or moving to the "next level" with her, was the possibility of physical danger. (Isn't that so cute?) The lingering eye contact and smiling from across the room are part of that subtle flirting. A touch on the arm actually moves things to the next level, letting him know you're open to him. A woman who's guarded doesn't usually touch a man and men know that. Flirting is being friendly, keeping the door open, letting them know we're not going to embarrass them. But it must be subtle. Part of being alluring is the mystery. If we're too overt, it becomes crass.
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