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You Can Be More Alluring Page 2
When you hear someone laughing, doesn't it make you want to go over there and be with them, to join in the fun? A person who laughs easily is assumed to be happy. When you laugh, you're relaxed and self-consciousness flies out the door. Attractive means to draw toward you. Everyone wants to be around happy people. Why not be that person that people are attracted to? Plus, laughter creates endorphins, which is good for you immune system, and most likely, keeps you younger. At least you'll feel younger. 3. Look directly into men's eyes...with a little smile on your lips.
The other thing men said they were most attracted to was a woman who genuinely likes herself, who's comfortable with who she, who likes how she looks, and who's not self-conscious. If you're self-conscious it's difficult to look people in the eyes. If you can't look a man in the eyes you can't really connect. It's the primary signal to a man that you're open to him advancing closer. Without that eye contact, that permission, most men will turn and go somewhere else. (They need to feel they have about a 95% chance of success.) Practice looking at people slightly longer than is comfortable, with a little hint of a smile. Use people who don't matter so you're not intimidated. Does it make people notice you more, become more interested in you? It's amazing how a few seconds of eye contact can make all the difference. They don't call it a "come-hither" look for nothin. continued
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