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Seven Reasons Girls Should Wait To Have Sex Page 2
I want to share my answer to a seventeen-year-old girl's question: How do you have sex? I thought it was important enough to put on the home page because so many girls ask and because, along with answering the question, I'm always compelled to give them my reasons why they should consider very carefully if they really are ready to take that step. Sex is wonderful, but only for the right reasons, with the right person and at the right time. There's not much to having sex. The male puts his penis inside a woman's vagina. He has an orgasm causing him to ejaculate, and sometimes, she has an orgasm, causing the sperm to be pulled further up into her body to raise the probability of becoming pregnant. That's sex, the simple biology. I'll give you some more "loving" details after I do my lecture, which I feel obligated to give you. Being responsible about your sexuality is an important part of having sex. First, I caution girls to not have sex too early. There are several reasons.
1) Sex causes pregnancy. If you have sex, you're taking a huge risk of altering the course of your life forever and limiting most of your choices. Throughout most of human history, people married and created families in their teens. That had to do with survival of the species. Make babies when you're young and strong and before you die in your thirties or forties. Today, most people aren't even finished with school until late teens or early twenties. They must find a job so they can be economically stable enough to marry and have children. Quality of life insists we wait. continued
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Dear Young Women,
