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Build Your Confidence Page 2
Stage One: (Remember: They're a little bit shy too and waiting for someone to make the first move.) 1) Practice smiling in front of the mirror. Often, when we're shy we think we're smiling but our mouths don't show it. 2) Then begin smiling at strangers who don't intimidate you. 3) When that becomes completely comfortable, start smiling at people who do intimidate you, like nice looking men, but not those who you're attracted to. Then, start smiling at men you are attracted to. 4) Start saying hello to people who don't intimidate you. 5) When that feels comfortable, start saying hello to people who do intimidate you, working up to the scariest.
6) Start complimenting people who don't intimidate you. Find something about them like a color they're wearing, a dress, a tie, whatever. It doesn't matter as long as your intention is to sincerely make them feel good. continued
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Here's how to get rid of that totally useless shyness that is holding you back from having what you want and being happy.
